I learned that I don't have to give grand gestures of service every time.
A small gesture of love is just as nice!!
By Bonny Dahlsrud
January Ensign, 2015
As an elementary schoolteacher of more than 25 years, I have received a lot of interesting things from my young students. Silly notes, drawn pictures, and imaginative crafts are common gifts. Last year, however, was the first time I had ever received a potato.
"A potato for the teacher," young Emma said proudly when she came to my desk, "because I didn't have an apple." It was a medium-sized potato, scrubbed clean, and beautiful as far as potatoes go. I thanked her and placed it on my desk. I saw Emma's large blue eyes shine with pride whenever she looked at it throughout the day.
After school, when I was working at my desk, I couldn't help but regard the potato with a tender smile. Children see things so simply, and with that common potato, Emma taught me something important. I left it on my desk for over a week because it served as a reminder to me.
As a visiting teacher and a sister in my ward, I wanted to serve others, but I was always waiting for an "apple" before I took time to help. If I was busy and couldn't make an extra casserole or if I wanted to give a special flower but didn't get to the floral shop, I ignored the still, small voice of the Spirit whispering of someone who needed my service.
"I'll do something this weekend, when I have time," I would convince myself. "Nobody needs me today."
But what if someone really did need me? What if I hadn't ignored the promptings to visit an elderly neighbor or the young widow who had just lost her husband? Could I have helped or served, even with what I could offer then---a "potato"?
I learned a great lesson from Emma that I am trying hard to put into practice. If I don't have an apple, I give a potato instead, and I do it now. I don't wait to make a casserole or my special lemon cream pie, I buy a box of cookies instead. I don't often get to the florist, but I can drop in for a chat without the flower. A homemade card would be great, but so would a quick phone call. It doesn't have to be a grand gesture of service every time. A small gesture of love is just as nice.
I have the potato at home now, but I don't think I'll ever eat it. It serves as a constant reminder to serve when I'm prompted. I give what I can now instead of waiting until later. A potato for the teacher really was the nicest gift.
And may I add my two cents...Since my hip surgery 3 weeks ago, I can personally add my testimony to this story. I have so appreciated those that have taken the time to visit. Those that have brought meals and really cheered up my day. With surgery like this, for the first 3 or 4 weeks you really wonder if you made the right decision. I have had a few crying sessions, a few pouting sessions, a few frustrated moments, and a few down right sad days. Jim has really tried to keep me cheered up but when he goes to work for 10 hours a day, the days gets long. I know he appreciates all you sweet sisters that have taken a bit of the burden away from him. (He's pooped when he gets home at night)
I know that there are those in our ward that are going through hard times. I know that there are opportunities out there sisters where we can make a difference. And from my experience of these last 3 weeks, I know you don't need an "apple" you just need a potato!!! Make that call, drop by to say you're thinking about them. It just takes a minute. And it makes all the difference in the world!! I can promise that!! Thank you for your love and concern.
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